Emigration - the act of leaving one country to settle and start a life in a new country.
Have you ever thought of emigrating? One thinks that if you are here in America, why would you leave? But I have mentioned in the past that three of my first cousins have moved abroad - all for work. One to play in the symphony in Switzerland, later to teach there; another to move to Paris and teach in Lille, France at the University and his sister who married a Welshman and teaches in Bristol, England at the University.
But when, how and why did we get to America since we are certainly not natives. As I mentioned, my mother's family is from Cordenons, Italy. My mother's father came here in May 1913. He left his wife and two daughters in Italy. He was a farm hand there. In first Canada and then America, he worked in paper mills and steel mills. In 1920 he sent for his family and they settled in International Falls, Minnesota. Five years later he would die of pneumonia in Cleveland, Ohio.
My father's father came here in July 1913 from Polish Russia and settled in Detroit where his cousin was already living. His family were also farmers and there was much discord about him leaving. His younger brother was becoming a priest and as the only other child he was expected to stay and run the farm. His future here was to work in the auto plants, Dodge main in Hamtramck to be exact. And he would retire from there in 1960 and pass away within six months of retirement.
My father's mother's side of the family came even earlier. My great grandmother left what was then Galicia, Austrian Poland, with her husband about 1890. I cannot find any immigration documents, but I found their oldest daughter's birth in 1892 in New Jersey. Sometime before 1900 they returned to Galicia and then returned back to America in 1901, along with a son who was born in Europe. They settled in Boswell, Pennsylvania. My great-grandfather worked in the coal mines and in 1912 he was killed when a rock fell on him, leaving behind his widow and nine children. Great grandma remarried and he too was killed in a mining accident. She then brought her family to Detroit and she lived here until 1961.
Each of these emigres came here looking for a better life. I never discussed with them their reasons and whether or not they ever regretted coming. Records show that my great-grandfather who first came in 1890 made a few trips back to see his family. And I saw Italian relatives doing the same. Some of those Italian relatives never brought their families to America. They sent money home and then when they got older they went back to Italy to spend their final days. We'll never know how the families fared. I do know that life during World War I was very difficult for my mother's mother and her two older sisters. My aunt told me about the Germans moving into the home and treating them as servants. I cannot even imagine.
So, have you ever thought of moving from where you were born if you are still there? My Italian neighbor lost his wife recently and he has talked of moving to Costa Rica. And my former dentist retired and moved to Mexico. I have, on my one block street, natives from Russia, Iraq, India, Japan, and Italy. So, would you relocate?
LOL. I just finished writing this and checked my email. Best Places to Retire in Europe.
Living in another country would be great to travel and learn about the country. But my roots are here. Most of my ancestors were here by 1650. I do have this fantasy holiday which involves Traveling to China, then Mongolia and boarding the Mongolian Express to Russia, going by cruise ship around Denmark, Norway, the British Isles, Iceland. You get the picture.
ReplyDeleteOne thing we do easily in the United States is move far away from family. When my dad passed, I found myself taking a lower paid job to move back to help my mom and two handicapped siblings. In Georgia, we have a lot of half backs. People who were moving to Florida but stopped here. We see the familiar story of children having to get elderly infirm parents back to where they can care for them or having to move to take care of them. The worst are those who have no one. So no, I would never consider moving to another country with no support system. The support system is terrible as it is in the States.
My elderly neighbors were fortunate to have their daughter and son-in-law buy a home on the next street. I too would not want to move away from my grandchildren, but when they get older, who knows.
DeleteSince 2016, we’ve been talking about it! Switzerland would be my first choice (of course), but I can’t afford it. France next, because I can speak French somewhat. I know it’s difficult and time-consuming, but if I’ve got 20 years left (knock wood), I’d like to spend that time in a quiet, beautiful place. Who knows?
ReplyDeleteOh, lots of those discussions started in 2016. My neighbor thought he would go back to Italy, but Fascism is rising in the north so he changed his mind.
DeleteMy father-in-law was born in Canada and we have thought occasionally about making the move. Unfortunately Judy does not qualify for Canadian citizenship. As for my family, they came here about the same time as yours: on my father's side from Russia/Lithuania around 1913, and on my mother's from Austria about 1890.
ReplyDeleteOne of my Canadian cousins moved here after he retired. He had been born in Detroit, moved to Canada when he was four, served in our Armed Forces and actually worked for the Federal Reserve while living in Windsor.
DeleteYou've discovered some really interesting facts about your family. I lived in France for many years, and were it not for a marriage going wrong I'd like to think I'd still be there! Right now though, if it wasn't for family ties, I relocate to Jaipur, India tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteJaipur is an interesting choice. I have Indian neighbors at both ends of my block and don't think anyone is going back anytime soon.
DeleteWhen I do my genealogy I feel a pull to go back to where my Dad's family originated from - Scotland. Heck even where they settled here in the US (Eastern Tennessee) But my husband wouldn't have it and neither would my kids. Plus in reality, we wouldn't be able to afford such a move in this stage of our lives. It is fun to dream about though.
ReplyDeleteDreams are what life is made of. That's what brought our ancestors here...or so I am guessing.
DeleteI love reading about ancestry and what motivated people to come here. I do believe many were very poor and taxes were killing them so they ventured across the pond. One day...one day, I will look into my dad's side. I know his mother's mother came from Austria-Hungary but that is huge and Galicia seems to ring a bell. I know my grandmom was born near Krakow. Interesting about Italy as my aunt(through marriage) was born and raised in Brixen/Bressonne. My mom had issues with many Germans, yes, she was full German but when she escaped from the east into the West she found a job as a housekeeper and Nanny to a doctor and his opera singing wife. You know it's bad when that woman asked what my mom's name was (Elfriede) and replied, "Oh, that won't do, I shall call you Esther." When my mom baked cookies, she would stand over my mom making sure my mom didn't eat one cookie and had to feed the dog before she could eat.
ReplyDeleteSome folks are real a--holes. Not everything we find out is pleasant unfortunately. And even relatives can be cruel to each other as I am finding out.
DeleteRelatives can be especially cruel....my dad's side was very, very nasty to my mom and when my dad died, through a series of events my uncle got his friends to buy the home and they tried to sue my mom for glass shelving, a light and an outside doorknob-my uncle and aunt sided with them. My uncle bought the sawmill for next to nothing and proceeded to tell people all around that my brother and I were lazy good for nothings and my mom made out like a bandit. It really was and is disgusting.
DeleteThank goodness we can pick our friends.
DeleteI inquired about emigrating to Canada in the 1990s, but was well short of the financial requirements. Now, nearing retirement, I'm looking seriously to moving to Edinburgh, Scotland, or possibly Belize.
ReplyDeleteMy friend's son has talked about Scotland. It is on my list of places to visit.
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